Appearing Powerful
In Deb Gruenfeld’s book, Acting with Power: Why We Are More Powerful Than We Believe, she discussed the advice for appearing more powerful by imagining you are wearing a crown or headdress. Try it.
Pick something to imagine placing your head that is powerful for you.
Can you feel the confidence and power from your imaginary headgear?
Did your posture improve? Mine did as I was writing this.
Do you find it easier to respect yourself when you imagine wearing something powerful?
Is it easier for you to act with dignity?
Is it easier for you to believe you are deserving and destined for great things?
Do you find yourself moving and breathing more slowly?
Many people also have a favorite item they wear or carry with them that makes them feel more powerful. Do you have anything you have used in the past?